We’re gonna break down some of the misconceptions about club girls in motorcycle club (M.C.) culture, clarifying the distinct roles and expectations tied to being connected with a club. Women have their own hierarchy, with Ol’ Ladies, partners of members, at the top, signifying respect and family-level inclusion in the club. 

The Female Hierarchy and Roles Within M.C. (Motorcycle Club) Culture.

In motorcycle clubs, women have their own hierarchy, just as men do. Each role carries expectations and responsibilities, and breaking the rules can bring consequences. The hierarchy determines respect, boundaries, and how women are viewed within the club.

The theory about the general female hierarchy in clubs works like this ol’ladies come in with their partners, their position in the hierarchy is determined by his rank, the only way to advance up the hierarchy is if your partner gains a higher rank. However, any ol’ lady who wears a property of jacket is acknowledged with respect, like all patches, it has to be earned, it’s the wedding ring of the club. 

You can be an ol’ lady and not wear the property of a patch, as the ol’ lady status is usually given when a member claims a woman has been seeing usually for a year or more (some clubs actually have this rule), as his officially to the entire club. Everyone in the hierarchy who has a different role than ol’lady sits below them in the hierarchy; there’s sometimes just as much politics among the women as there is with the men, it just better hidden.

None of the females has any authority over male members, and they are not considered members. It’s generally frowned upon for an ol’ lady to involve herself in club business, although ol’ ladies often take supporting roles like arranging community events, etc

There are occasions when an ol’ lady may be asked to do work for the club, but this is normally by agreement and club-sanctioned. Ol’ Ladies rarely do interviews or speak out, and normally it’s sanctioned or her partner has agreed and informed the club that it is going to happen. 

This was one of the misconceptions with the film “The Bike Riders.” Kathy’s interviews had been preapproved by the club as part of a project; therefore, they were completely authentic. The filmmakers accessed the tapes from the initial interviews. A alot of bikers argued the interviews had to be fake on the grounds ol’ ladies don’t do interviews on club business. 

But ol’ ladies randomly speaking out isn’t really a thing. Everything an ol’ lady does affects her partner and his position in the club. 

What It Means To Be An Ol’ Lady And The Expectations Tied to That Role.

An Ol’ Lady is the partner of a specific club member. She is not a member herself but is seen as part of the family. Her status may be recognized through a “Property of” patch, considered the equivalent of a wedding ring, signifying respect and protection. Her conduct reflects directly on her partner, and any conflict involving her becomes an issue for him. The Ol’ Lady of the president sits at the top of the female hierarchy.

There are expectations of an ol’ lady and unwritten and, honestly, sometimes unspoken rules. An ol’lady is expected to be an extension of her partner, and while women are respected and protected within clubs to a high level, she is expected to carry herself in a manner representing that extension. Everything she now does will impact her partner and affect his position; he is answerable for her always. Though guidance is given, other members are expected to take their issues to her partner, not her directly. She is expected not to be too intimate with other members, to be respectful, and to give her partner space when he’s trying to discuss club business with another member. There are many other things to consider, but most learn them along the way. It’s enough for her to say an ol’ lady shouldn’t be doing anything that would embarrass or weaken her partner’s position.

Some Ol’ Ladies choose the role of a “citizen wife,” staying separate from club life, focusing on home and family, and not involving themselves in club matters.

The Difference Between Citizen Wives and Involved Ol’ Ladies.

Citizen wives live independently from the club culture, focusing on domestic life and family. They often avoid club events and socializing with members. Involved Ol’ Ladies, by contrast, participate actively in the club’s social sphere and are recognized as a supportive group.

Let’s address a misconception here: there’s this theory that Ol’ ladies are required to give up their entire life to be in their relationship. This couldn’t be further from the truth; they often hold down jobs, hold down family and friend relationships. There’s no requirement to isolate themselves from the world; there is a requirement not to discuss anything to do with the club.

Many girl clubs are now teaming up with the mainstream club to also provide supportive activities for the club. They are treated as support clubs.

The Role Of Property Of The Club Girls and How They Fit Into the Hierarchy.

Property of the Club girls are women who dedicate themselves to the club rather than to an individual member. They may be sponsored by a specific man who introduces them and handles issues on their behalf. While sometimes misunderstood as “pass-arounds,” they usually hold more respect and commitment than that stereotype suggests. They wear a “Property of [Club Name]” patch to indicate they belong to the club and should not be harassed.

Various Categories Of Women In Club Life: Sweetbutts, Patch Bunnies, Bike Hoppers, Club Sluts, etc.

Several terms exist for women who spend time around clubs and may engage sexually with multiple members: Sweetbutts, Patch Bunnies, Bike Hoppers, Patch Whores, Club Bunnies, and Club Sluts. These women are usually aiming to become an Ol’ Lady, though that is rare due to their history with many members.

Lesser-Known Roles: House Mouses, Club Mouses, and Event Girls

• House Mouse: A woman who lives with a member (or a member and his wife) and helps out in exchange for housing and food.
  
• Club Mouse: A term for women who volunteer at the club without being staff or Ol’ Ladies.
  
• Event Girls: Paid workers, such as bartenders, entertainers, or models, hired for events. Despite appearances, they are not club girls, and confusing them with “bunnies” or “sluts” is inaccurate.
  

Why Respect and Awareness of Hierarchy Are Critical

Respecting the hierarchy protects both women and their partners. For example, upsetting the president’s Ol’ Lady creates direct conflict with her partner. Wearing club colors without protection can also make a woman a target, as she may not know which outsiders are friends or enemies of the club.

Relationships in M.C. Culture

Contrary to stereotypes, some of the strongest and most loving relationships exist between club members and their Ol’ Ladies. However, it requires adjustment, especially for women unfamiliar with the culture. Without guidance from other Ol’ Ladies, the lifestyle can be isolating. Successful Ol’ Ladies are respected for their loyalty, support, and ability to hold down both their man and his club.

Core Advice for Women in These Relationships

• Decide your boundary: know if you want to be fully aware of club life or not at all.
  
• Don’t ask questions about club matters, he’ll tell you what you need to know.
  
• Let go of unrealistic fantasies about suburban life within this culture.
  
• Define your level of involvement and ensure your partner agrees.
  
• Never treat club business as pillow talk.
  
• Find your role and place within the culture.
  
• Treat the club like extended family.
  

Keep your list of priorities short and focused.